Ismay's in the hospital with terminal cancer. She'd hidden it for the past 2 or 3 years, then fell the other night. Aunt Fluffy had to battle with her to get her to go to hospital. I just heard, and rang up immediately and told her I love her. Ismay is my bro-in-law's mother, Aunt Fluffy's mother. My sister Deborah's mother-in-law. Nikki and Barry's grandmother. Her apartment is next to the Bronxx Museum and I've stayed with her a couple of times. I'd had a pang when E told me Ismay didn't eat on the last cruise. :(((((